Want to get healthier and happier — even in the face of real obstacles?

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Healthy Deviant U

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Here’s how a few more HDU members describe their experience …

 
 
 
 
 
 

I am thoroughly enjoying this journey through Healthy Deviant U. And amazingly, I am doing so much better! I’m grateful to have a healthier, more rested self to enter this new year with.
— Pam

Welcome, friend.

Ever wished someone would take you by the hand and show you how to be healthy and happy — even in our less-than-healthy-happy world?

That’s what we are doing here in Healthy Deviant U. So congrats — you found your way here.

The fact that you discovered this page tells me that you are already doing the work of becoming a healthier, happier person.

I’m guessing that you are already doing a lot of things right. And you’ve probably also learned a lot the hard way (like I did).

You’ve likely tried enough conventional diet, exercise, and self-improvement programs to know that most of them don’t work as promised, or don’t work for long.

Maybe you’ve gotten frustrated, or even hopeless at times, about how impossible it seems to do all the things you are “supposed to do” to be healthy and still have any kind of life.

Still, you are determined to keep learning and growing. You are open to doing some things … differently.

GAME ON! Healthy Deviant U is packed with real-life experiments, gameboards, and live-session celebrations to make every step of the journey feel like a fun, transformative adventure.

For that, I salute you. And I get you.

I recognize you as a fellow Healthy Deviant (or perhaps what I call a “Healthy Deviant in the Making”) and I’m so glad you are here! If you want to know more about me and my qualifications in this realm, you can find all of that right here. What you most need to know, though, is this:

You deserve to feel and function better than you do — and far better than passes for “Normal.”

You are worthy of the energy and vitality that are your birthright. And getting as healthy and happy as you want to be is an effort worthy of your attention. Because this world NEEDS more healthy, happy people.

We need good, high-capacity humans who are:

  • READY to defy the unhealthy conventions and norms that are breaking them (and others) down

  • EAGER to learn new skills that improve their health, fitness, function, vitality, and life outlook.

  • WILLING to move beyond yo-yo diets, miracle-promise workouts, six-pack-abs gimmicks, and bikini-body hype

  • DETERMINED to get to the root cause of their health challenges, not just suppress their symptoms or endlessly “manage” their chronic conditions

  • INSPIRED to become the strongest, most clear-headed and compassionate versions of themselves

  • OPEN to having some fun in the process.

    That is what we are doing here in Healthy Deviant U — or “HDU” for short.

When I first started HDU in 2020, I was so scattered, scared, and constantly searching for external solutions for a quick fix, which exacerbated the stress! Now I’m able to accept what is with love and gratitude, and go forward from there.
— Tania

WHAT REAL PEOPLE ARE SAYING

Want to know more about what lies ahead in Healthy Deviant U? Scroll through the testimonials below to see what some newly minted Healthy Deviants have to say about their experiences and results. Then read on for more details about what your own Healthy Deviant future holds.

I just want to say that Pilar, the book, this group and Healthy Deviant U have changed my life in ways that 12-day retreats, a year in a mystery school program, and years of Jungian work have not. “Thank you” is inadequate to express my gratitude!
— Elizabeth

What to Expect in HDU

YOUR HDU MEMBERSHIP sets you on an ongoing, four-phase Progress Pathway — one that guides you though the exploratory, step-by-step process of changing your life for the healthier, and happier.

Your journey includes:

  • Skill-building lessons and suggested experiments for you to explore at your own pace. Weekly reminder emails announce new video and workbook content as it unlocks (plus live sessions — see below), with handy links that take you directly to your fresh goodies. Take as much time as you like to integrate your new “aha!” insights, and to implement them however you like. Go back and review previous installments whenever and wherever its convenient.

  • Energizing, interactive live sessions (every other week) with me and your fellow members to help you stay on track, connected, supported, and moving forward. Come to those sessions that work for your schedule, and catch replays of those you miss, which are always waiting for you the HDU Hub.

  • Hot Seat Coaching — a great way to to get live, one-on-one support with your thorniest issues, and to learn from others who are facing similar challenges. Each Hot Seat coaching session includes a video replay, AI summary, and complete transcript so you can revisit your experience and key insights on demand.

  • Daily support from me and a merry band of fellow Healthy Deviant U members via our private community group — a great place to seek inspiration, share wins and challenges, ask questions, find camaraderie — and to get unstuck when you need to. You can email me directly, too, when you are in need personal support.

  • Beautifully illustrated workbook materials, gameboards, and badges of completion — a graphically rich wardrobe of support to keep you on track and moving ever forward,

  • Plus all sorts of fun VIP bonus goodies, including members-only special events, supplemental mini-courses, and more.


I am doing my daily practices with more intention and awareness now, and finding them to be game changers. My self-awareness is improving, and that is so empowering!
— KRISTEN

IS HEALTHY DEVIANT U FOR YOU?

THIS EXPERIENCE is for anyone who is determined to be a healthy person in an unhealthy world — regardless of gender, age, race, ethnicity, size, or shape. At present, active members include health-seekers from 23 to 78, all of whom share similar goals of becoming their healthiest, happiest, most authentic selves.

You might be ready for Healthy Deviant U if:

  • You’ve read a lot of health and self-help books, and tried out a variety of programs designed to help you improve your life in various ways.

  • You have a decent idea of WHAT you need to do to get healthier and happier, but you might be struggling with HOW. And at various times, you might have been inclined to just give up.

  • You’ve come to the conclusion that the ways you’ve been pursuing health-improvement aren’t working for you (or as well as you’d hoped).

  • Despite your best efforts, you’ve been stuck or stymied by obstacles, false starts, or inertia.

  • You’ve sometimes gotten overwhelmed and confused by trying too many different programs at once or in rapid succession.

  • You’ve reached a plateau in your progress and have begun feeling bored, restless, or “meh.”

  • You sense you need to change some things in your daily life, and perhaps your larger life path, but you don’t know where to start.

  • You’ve already come a long way, and now you want to raise your game to the next level, or step up to help others.

This program is NOT for you if:

  • You’re looking for yet another quick-fix diet or miracle cure.

  • You want to defend rigid convention, old-guard authority, and a “one-right-way-to-do-things” mentality.

  • You aren’t willing to take small actions and embark on new experiments in the service of a better life.


THE WHAT AND WHY OF HEALTHY DEVIANT U

Many of the concepts in Healthy Deviant U are based on my book, The Healthy Deviant. You don’t have to read my book to join HDU, but if have read and liked it, I know you you’ll love HDU.

Healthy Deviant U is the best place to keep raising your own Healthy Deviant game.

EVEN BEFORE a whole bunch of converging global crises came bubbling up to meet us, our world was a challenged one — with well over half of U.S. adults chronically ill and overweight, and more than 75 percent suffering from mental and emotional troubles of all kinds.

According to research detailed in my book, The Healthy Deviant, it’s likely that only a single digit percentage of U.S. adults is currently healthy, happy, and on track to stay that way.

Clearly, we need to change the way we are living.

All of the recommendations in Healthy Deviant U are rooted in research-based tenets and bodies of knowledge, like Positive Psychology, psychoneuroimmunology, and Functional Medicine. They are also all grounded in the same simple, science-supported thesis I describe in the opening of my book.

Healthy Deviant U is my way of taking the perspectives and practices in my book and bringing them into real life. The HDU experience is designed help people overcome their longstanding states of chronic depletion and distraction, and to move beyond the conventional, woefully inadequate “self-improvement” approaches we’ve been encouraged to embrace.

Because let’s face it: The pat, superficial culture of “diet-and-exercise” hasn’t gotten us very far. In many cases, it has worked against us, setting us up for an endless cycle of trying and failing, chasing unrealistic, stereotyped ideals, and feeling worse about ourselves every step of the way.

As I note in my book, we CAN beat our society’s unhealthy odds, but NOT by following its status quo advice. Healthy Deviant U presents the more nuanced, reality-based advice I would suggest you follow instead.

Discovering my own Healthy Deviant Journey — this was phenomenally liberating for me. I now feel very much in charge of what I eat, how I exercise, when I go to sleep. I feel fully present with myself. Things have started to change dramatically in my life.
— FLORENCE

Each phase of Healthy Deviant U gets celebrated with its own badge-sticker of completion (ideal for decorating a water bottle, journal, or laptop) so you can wear your Healthy Deviant mastery loud and proud.

Our 4-Phase Progress Pathway

IN HEALTHY DEVIANT U, we’ll explore and implement four key phases over the course of a year — through recorded and live video sessions, group and hot-seat coaching experiences, interactive exercises, real-life experiments, workbook materials, a supportive community, and more.

Keep reading for an overview of what we’ll cover in each transformational phase, and the guided, continuous-growth path you’ll embark on as a member.

Phase 1:
Start Where You Are

Yoo hoo! Time to refocus your attention on your own wellbeing. In this phase we are focused on Nonconformist Competency No. 1: Amplified Awareness.

Notice what's working, and what's not. Leave unconscious choices and self-defeating patterns behind.

Locate your place on your Healthy Deviant Hero’s Journey, and take your next clear steps toward improved body-mind vitality.

Consider this your whispered wakeup call, and your invocation to a higher level of vitality, resilience, and autonomy.

You’ll learn to radically reframe what you’ve been thinking of as “your” health problems, and begin approaching your health-improvement with a completely different set of viewpoints and motivations.

You’ll also begin integrating some small but powerful (likely life-changing) daily Renegade Rituals with the power to return you to your most conscious and capable self.

Phase 2: Reclaim Your Mojo

Outwit exhaustion and overwhelm. Rebuild your energy, enthusiasm, and resilience.

In this phase, we’ll focus on reclaiming our diminished mojo through Nonconformist Competency No. 2: Preemptive Repair.

Here, you’ll learn how to get ahead of the damage done to you just by virtue of living in an inherently stressful, pro-inflammatory culture.

You’ll learn to outwit the Vicious Cycle of the Unhealthy Default Reality and embrace the Virtuous Cycle of Healthy Deviance instead.

You’ll run some daring, rewarding experiments in radical replenishment. You’ll also build power and momentum for next-level shifts, and lay the groundwork for an extraordinary next year.

Phase 3: Raise Your Game

Learn the survival skills of the new era by expanding your Healthy Deviant tradecraft.

In this phase, we lean into Nonconformist Competency No. 3: Continuous Growth and Learning.

Identify and prioritize essential know-how. Create a clear plan for acquiring the skills you are missing. Tackle the obstacles that have been holding you back.

Notice how making small, sustainable shifts delivers new energy, equanimity, and enthusiasm. Ditch your self-sabotaging tendencies and pursue the healthy goals of your choosing — without wearing yourself down.

Take stock of the new possibilities that come into view as fatigue, unhealthy cravings, and mood swings retreat and your newfound sense of vitality kicks into high gear.

Phase 4: Be the Change

Claim your Healthy Deviant identity and see your place in the bigger picture.

In this phase, we’ll focus on taking your Healthy Deviance to the next level — and to the places where you live, work, play and relate.

The goal of this final phase is to help you discover and step into your rightful role as a Healthy Deviant leader, and to feel into your own highest callings as an agent of change.

Here, you’ll assess your personal Healthy Deviant strengths and take stock of your desire to make Healthy Deviance a more central part of your life.

Create a plan to find and build your own Healthy Deviant community. Confidently live into the Healthy Deviant Manifesto as you motivate others to do the same.

Earn your Healthy Deviant Badge of Honor and wear it with pride.


So, what do ya say?

Are you ready to embark on a life-shifting Healthy Deviant Adventure?

Are you willing to do it for yourself, and for the people and projects you love? Or maybe for the good of the world around you?

Because as Howard Thurman so wisely noted, what the world really needs “is people who have come alive.”

💥 JOIN THE WAITLIST NOW 💥

My whole goal with Healthy Deviant U is to spare you the indignities, frustrations, and wasted efforts I suffered through, and to instead offer you the easier, more rewarding approaches I’ve discovered along the way.

If you decide to join WHEN ENROLLMENT OPENS AGAIN, your life WILL change.

Not all at once. Not by some stroke of magic. But probably much more quickly than you expected. And far more quickly than if you try yet another “instant fix.”

If you have any questions, I’m happy to answer them. Just send me an email here.

You are SO worthy of this investment in yourself. And your Phase 1 Badge of Completion awaits! 👇